I have always heard my guy friends saying that there girls are hard to understand. They sometimes don’t get what there girls actually intend by their mood swings, tantrums, weird gestures and strange way of handling things and situations.
Well. I being a girl, can just tell all you confused and ignorant guys out there that girls might be difficult to understand or hard to read, but they love you in their own ways.
TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY
You just have to figure few things out and you both are good to go a long way. TOGETHER FOREVER..!
I may not be a love expert here. But yeah, I can surely try to help you all with a few things that you should know about a girl..
HAPPY READING..!
· She might not say it or show it always, but she fears of losing you.
And this fear builds strong inside her with every moment you ignore her, hurt her or do something which is unacceptable to her.
· You might not like it when she tries to stick to you all the time and finds reasons to be with you.
But when she does that, she is just trying to make you a part of her every moment of life. Dude, she simply can’t have enough of you.
· Sometimes, u may feel that she has taken you for granted. She even might really have.
But remember, if she has taken you for granted, it means she trusts you enough for life and she believes that no matter what, you would never leave her.
· If she wants you to make her meet your friends then it doesn’t mean she wants to spy on you. Rather, she wants to impress your friends or get along with them so that they never disapprove of her.
· If she starts talking and going out with your friends more than her own, or in some case, she totally leaves her friends and starts considering your friends as her own, then it doesn’t mean she wants to barge into your private time with your friends.
Rather, she just wants to make sure that you know how your world is hers and how ready she is to accept your friends and family.
She wants to make sure that you are not insecure about the people she is hanging out with because after all, they are your friends and you would never doubt them.
· If she asks you to be a part of things she wants to do, she isn’t being selfish by trying to force you into things of her interest.
But, it’s just that she can never imagine her any moment without you. She never thinks beyond you. Whatever she wants to do, she wants you to be a part of it, a part of her every memory, every happiness. You are her happiness.
· You do things which are unacceptable to her and she forgives you. That doesn’t mean she has accepted your wrong deeds. That just means that for her, NO REASON IS AS BIG A REASON TO BE APART FROM YOU.
She might shout, argue, fight and even punish you a little over that matter but she won’t punish you enough to be away from her.
· She would shout on you, fight with you over little issues which hurt her but that’s the best she can handle it because she wants you to know what hurts her so that you don’t take some unwanted guilt and make sure that you don’t hurt her again.
· If she lets you touch her, then you should know the level of trust she has laid on you. RESPECT IT.
And with trust comes a lot of expectations, the biggest being the trust of togetherness. The trust of she being your responsibility and that you will always take care of her.
· If she lets you talk to some REALLY UNACCEPTABLE GIRLS like the ex-girlfriends or the ones who flirt with you, then it doesn’t mean it was easy for her to accept it.
It simply means that she trusts you more than her own thoughts and she knows that you would never do anything to break that trust.
· If she spends for you or on you then it doesn’t mean she is trying to be superior or is trying to hurt your male ego.
It just means that for her, you and she are not individuals but one. So if she can spend on herself, she can spend on you too.
PS (for some shameless boyfriends)-if today she has it and you don’t then she would love to spend. But you don’t have to make it a habit and take advantage of it. It works on the principle – “today me, tomorrow or some day, soon, you”
· If she asks for your opinion and advice even before buying a simple hair pin then it doesn’t mean she can’t decide things for herself.
But it’s just that she wants you to decide for her. She wants you to be a part of her every decision of life. She’s giving you the authority to decide the wrongs and rights for her.
Don’t misuse it and start taking all her decisions all by yourself.
· If she sees you sad and asks you the reason and pokes you till she gets it out, then it doesn’t mean she wanted to bother you more.
But she wanted you to get rid of that sadness as soon as possible. She wanted to make sure that she does every possible thing she can to take you away from it.
· If she tries to poke her nose in your family matters then it doesn’t mean she is being bossy or interfering. It just means that she considers your family as her own and she is as much concerned as you are.
· And I can go on with this list endlessly but I have to stop right here. I have given you enough already. I might update it whenever I would feel a need.
Your girl is PRECIOUS and she needs to be handled with utmost love and care.
So if you have, at any point, misunderstood your girl or you had doubts over any of these gestures she showed to you then go and make it up for her because she is the best you can have and you know you love her enough to be able to afford losing her.
You both love each other, and that’s what matters in the end..!
Remember,
LIFE MIGHT NEVER GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE.. SO NEVER WASTE A MOMENT WHEN YOU CAN MAKE UP FOR YOUR DEEDS.!!!
You can feel free to ask me any other gesture your girl is making you face and that I have missed to mention and I would be happy to explain what it actually means.. J
GUD LUCK…may god bless all the lovey-doveys. May you all be together forever!
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